As I shared in part one of the benefits of ending a relationship, I love supporting people through this transition because I hold onto the faith that you can come out on the other side of the breakup with a better idea of who you are, a greater sense of peace with your past, and a vision for how you want your life to move forward. This is a tall order, but completely realistic! In  part one, we talked about relief, clarity, and community. In this second part, we will highlight opportunities for changes, sexual exploration and investing energy back into yourself. 

It is incredibly easy to find information about how to exercise, how much you should be exercising, and why it’s important to exercise. In fact, this information seems to find us, even when we aren’t looking. You might receive this information from your doctor, your friends, the nightly news, and daily targeted advertisements on your social media! The message behind much of this information is that you need to exercise to be healthy and this might also mean changing something or many things about the way your body looks. It can feel really challenging to divert your attention from these messages and check in with yourself on how much and what type of movement your body needs. 

This is a chance to reflect on the nuances of how you interact with social media, the impacts those interactions have on your emotional well being, and how to feel the greatest sense of agency in your social media use. I certainly do not believe that social media is either all “good” or all “bad.” I absolutely believe that it is a great idea to pause and check in within yourself just as we check in during our sessions about things like sleep and how you’re feeling in your most intimate relationships.